Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 256)

Choose a familiar, highly vivid mental route · Place pegged items along a memory palace route · Mentally walk the route to encode and to retrieve + 7 more

Extend to the Person-Action-Object (PAO) system · Encode numbers with the Major System · Build your number-shape peg list + 7 more

Peg System Mnemonics, Made Practical · Encode numbers with the Major System · Build your number-shape peg list + 7 more

Peg System Mnemonics, Made Practical · Build your number-shape peg list · Encode numbers with the Major System + 7 more

Recognize the difference between titration and flooding · Distinguish soothing from numbing · Stay with sensation without flooding (titrate) + 7 more

Give yourself an artificial head start · Design your payment environment to match your spending intentions · Use the pain of paying to slow down spending + 7 more

The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) · Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time · Use experiential recognition to highlight strengths in the moment + 7 more

Use a brief reset rather than escalating consequences · Use experiential recognition to highlight strengths in the moment · The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) + 7 more

Use a brief reset rather than escalating consequences · The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) · Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time + 7 more

Eat a Mediterranean-style diet to reduce oxidative telomere damage · Telomere Health: The Cellular Aging Markers You Can Influence · Regular aerobic exercise to maintain telomere length + 7 more

Shift toward a whole-food eating pattern · Nutrition and Mood: The Gut-Brain Link, Honestly Explained · Eat a small handful of nuts and seeds daily + 7 more

Eat a small handful of nuts and seeds daily · Omega-3 Fatty Acids and Mood, Made Practical · Treat omega-3 as part of an anti-inflammatory diet, not a standalone fix + 7 more

Nonviolent Requests: How to Ask for What You Need Without Demanding · Distinguish connection requests from action requests · Make requests specific, present-tense, and doable + 7 more

Self-empathy · Distinguish connection requests from action requests · Connect empathically before making a request + 7 more

Distinguish connection requests from action requests · Nonviolent Requests: How to Ask for What You Need Without Demanding · Connect empathically before making a request + 7 more

Connecting feelings to needs · Identifying and expressing feelings · Distinguish connection requests from action requests + 7 more

Distinguish connection requests from action requests · Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Made Practical · Nonviolent Requests: How to Ask for What You Need Without Demanding + 7 more

Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Made Practical · Self-empathy · Observations without evaluation + 7 more

Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Made Practical · Self-empathy · Treat every act as an offering — however mundane + 7 more

Nonviolent Requests: How to Ask for What You Need Without Demanding · Distinguish connection requests from action requests · Connect empathically before making a request + 7 more

Nonviolent Requests: How to Ask for What You Need Without Demanding · Test whether your request is actually a demand · Connect empathically before making a request + 7 more

Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Made Practical · Self-empathy · Connecting feelings to needs + 7 more

Summarize to help the speaker hear themselves · Distill notes through progressive summarization · Progressive Summarization, Made Practical + 7 more

Add the strongest objection to every major supporting reason · Set the constraint: what conclusions would you not accept? · Separate the argument from the arguer + 7 more

Add the strongest objection to every major supporting reason · Ask what alternative perspectives would say · Apply the double-standard check: would I accept this reasoning if it pointed the other way? + 7 more

Anchoring Bias in Negotiation and Judgment · Name the anchor to blunt it · Purpose Anchors: Keeping Meaning Accessible Day to Day + 7 more

Define measurable Key Results · Define success by growth and contribution, not scorekeeping · Global vs. local JOL separation + 7 more

Periodically compare self-ratings with objective data · Self-Monitoring, Made Practical · Track the target behavior consistently, not selectively + 7 more

Relabel the thought as a mental event, not a fact · Identify the triggering situation · Take the Free Observer stance + 7 more

OKRs for People, Not Just Companies · Define measurable Key Results · Keep OKRs separate from your task list + 7 more

Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical · Shikantaza (just sitting) · Choiceless awareness — resting without an object + 7 more

Accept your role (not its outcomes) as your commitment · Distinguish outcomes from tasks when setting your three · Apply the outcome equivalence test + 7 more

Zoom out from the single loss to the aggregate · Steelman the strategy opposite to the successful one · Oblique Strategies, Made Practical + 7 more

Maintain approach framing after a setback · Negative visualization (premeditatio malorum) · Recover from setbacks without quitting the goal + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Use the bullseye to resolve competing values · Trust their capacity to find their own way + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Use Plan B: the three-step collaborative conversation · Plan behavior management strategies in advance + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Pre-sleep trataka for insomnia and mind-calming · Evening yoga routine for sleep + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Change exactly one element and observe what shifts · Ask what a specific other person would do + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Name the loss the adaptive challenge requires · Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Change exactly one element and observe what shifts · WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Use only what is already there · Steelman the strategy opposite to the successful one + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Use Plan B: the three-step collaborative conversation · Plan behavior management strategies in advance + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Roll with the punches · Cut costs mercilessly on things you don’t value + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Run two burners at high for a defined sprint · Name which burners are actually on + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Edit your choice environment upstream · Prioritize and execute + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Steelman the strategy opposite to the successful one · Anchor your opening near your end of the ZOPA + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Give yourself advice as if advising a close friend · Advise yourself as you would a friend + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Fight the problem, not each other · Mapping shared and divergent values in a relationship + 7 more

Oblique Strategies, Made Practical · Use reverse brainstorming to find failure modes · Cover and move (teamwork over silos) + 7 more

Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control · Debrief against process goals, not just the outcome · Track performance goals with quantitative metrics + 7 more

Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control · Process vs. Outcome Goals in Sport and Performance · Process Goals, Made Practical + 7 more

Use morphological analysis for wicked problems with many interdependencies · Define the problem precisely before solving it · Build psychological capability through knowledge and practice + 7 more

Recognize when contrast is being used on you · Observations without evaluation · Apply the outsider test: how would this look to a neutral observer? + 7 more

Surface and examine the assumptions you are making · Distinguish observable data from interpretation · The Ladder of Inference + 7 more

Distinguish observable data from interpretation · Check the story before you conclude · Observations without evaluation + 7 more

Expert-comparison study · Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action · Extract a generalizable principle from what you observed + 7 more

Learn from observing others who are similar to you · Expert-comparison study · Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action + 7 more

Expert-comparison study · Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action · Think-aloud modeling + 7 more

Demonstrate the target performance before demanding it · Scaffolding: The Art of Temporary Learning Support · Scaffolding and deliberate fading + 7 more

Learning through exemplar study · Cultivate virtue through deliberate habituation · Practice virtues as interconnected, not separate + 7 more

Use the performance-feedback loop without Self 1 · Raise awareness and build responsibility simultaneously · Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor + 7 more

Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself · Notice and name experience from observer position · O — Observe: Notice What Is Actually Happening + 7 more

Mindfulness of the current emotion · Observe the emotion without feeding it · O — Observe: Notice What Is Actually Happening + 7 more

Mindfulness of the current emotion · O — Observe: Notice What Is Actually Happening · Observe the emotion without feeding it + 7 more

Mindfulness and Wise Mind · Mindfulness of the current emotion · O — Observe: Notice What Is Actually Happening + 7 more

Practice observing where your mind wanders without redirecting it · The Three Bs of Creativity: Bed, Bath, and Bus · Use low-demand movement as incubation time + 7 more

Take the Free Observer stance · Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself · Notice the noticer + 7 more

Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself · The Witness Stance · Replace judgment with non-judgmental awareness + 7 more

Observe without obeying · Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting · Surf the urge to avoid instead of obeying it + 7 more

Witnessing thoughts — observing without being them · Notice the noticer · Watching the thinker + 7 more

Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself · Glimpse practice: a 10-second recognition of aware space · Develop introspective metacognition + 7 more

Notice and name experience from observer position · Use genuine facial expressions and body language — not managed ones · Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself + 7 more

The fly-on-the-wall replay · Write the observer’s account of the event · Take the fly-on-the-wall perspective + 7 more

Write the observer’s account of the event · Recognize aware presence within strong emotion · Return to the observer during difficult emotional moments + 7 more

Apply the outsider test: how would this look to a neutral observer? · Observe from multiple angles before drawing conclusions · Notice the noticer + 7 more

Metta at the close — sharing merit and goodwill · Experiencing the self as a process, not a thing · The basic self-inquiry: tracing the "I"-thought to its source + 7 more

Return to the observer during difficult emotional moments · Recognize aware presence within strong emotion · Do the opposite action all the way + 7 more

Metacognition: Knowing What You Actually Know · Use improved attention to observe metacognitive beliefs · Question your own assumptions with Socratic rigor + 7 more

Continuous noting — extending the practice into daily activity · Experiencing the self as a process, not a thing · The foundational stance — observing, not fixing + 7 more

Notice the noticer · Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical · Experiencing the self as a process, not a thing + 7 more

Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical · Notice the noticer · Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself + 7 more

The emotional charge inventory · Hitbonenut: contemplative self-observation · Take a validated Big Five measure + 7 more

Notice the noticer · Witnessing thoughts — observing without being them · Take the Free Observer stance + 7 more

Notice the noticer · Witnessing thoughts — observing without being them · Observing thoughts as arising and passing events + 7 more

Cognitive Defusion: Creating Distance from Worry Thoughts · The Worry Log: Capturing and Categorizing Worries · Witnessing thoughts — observing without being them + 7 more

Obstacle anticipation before close · Plan — make an if-then plan for the obstacle · Anticipate the obstacle before it arrives + 7 more

Reframe the obstacle as the material you work with · Identify the main internal obstacle that stands between you and the wish · Find the advantage inside the obstacle + 7 more

Recognize the self-handicapping pattern in yourself · Plan — make an if-then plan for the obstacle · Map the obstacles: WOOP your life-crafting goals + 7 more

Run a gap analysis on each domain — what would move the needle? · Map the obstacles: WOOP your life-crafting goals · Distinguish diagnostic trees (why?) from solution trees (how?) + 7 more

Plan for obstacles with coping plans · Plan — make an if-then plan for the obstacle · Write an if–then plan for your biggest obstacle + 7 more

The obvious veto: reject the first three ideas before keeping any · Green hat: generate new ideas and creative possibilities · Route decisions to your Discernment genius + 7 more

Resist conspiracy escalation · Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation · Know when not to apply the razor + 7 more

Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation · Know when not to apply the razor · Diagnose before elaborating + 7 more

Know when not to apply the razor · Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation · Diagnose before elaborating + 7 more

Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor · Keep a task-unrelated thought log · Redirect toward a meaningful task + 7 more

Exposure and response prevention (ERP) for OCD-like patterns · Apply defusion to reassurance-seeking urges · Remove or modify the cue rather than resist the response + 7 more

The Big Five Personality Model · Take a validated Big Five measure · Using openness to calibrate your learning approach + 7 more

The Big Five Personality Model · Take a validated Big Five measure · Understanding trait change — what shifts and what does not + 7 more

Cultivate oceanic or cosmic feeling through awe practices · Connection to nature and the larger living world · Practice forest bathing (shinrin-yoku) for stress recovery + 7 more

Make an irrevocable decision about a recurring temptation · Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts) · Commitment contracts with real stakes + 7 more