Coaching pour les défis que les gens apportent vraiment (page 141)

The breathing phrase ("It breathes me") · Use slow, rhythmic breathing to down-regulate · Nasal breathing during Zone 2 to train respiratory efficiency + 7 more

Recognize when you’re on the hedonic treadmill · Build a recovery rule into the streak · Name the feeling to defuse the reflex + 7 more

Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Target GTG at one specific goal movement · Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy + 7 more

Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption · Negative visualization (premeditatio malorum) · Recover from setbacks without quitting the goal + 7 more

The heartbeat phrase ("My heartbeat is calm and regular") · HRV biofeedback with a real-time sensor · Use HRV as real-time feedback during sessions + 7 more

The Now Habit, Made Practical · Actively protect valuable existing habits during transitions · Watch for the downstream ripples + 7 more

The heaviness exercise ("My arm is heavy") · Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Rucking for postural strength + 7 more

The Now Habit, Made Practical · Deliver active recognition of ordinary positive moments · Habit stacking + 7 more

Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Use the cancellation procedure to end sessions safely · Release-only relaxation: drop the tension phase + 7 more

The Now Habit, Made Practical · Attach the habit to an anchor moment · Habit stacking + 7 more

Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy · Use the cancellation procedure to end sessions safely + 7 more

Install target behaviors in the new context from day one · Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows · Use social transitions to change the norms around your behavior + 7 more

Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy · Consistent-mapping practice + 7 more

The Now Habit, Made Practical · Calculate the opportunity cost of a recurring habit · Run a quarterly budget review to reset the allocations + 7 more

Use the cancellation procedure to end sessions safely · Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Run a volume-reduction deload: cut sets by 40–60%, keep intensity + 7 more

Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption · Rotate bundles before they stop working · Protect the swap under stress + 7 more

Autogenic Training, Made Practical · The warmth exercise ("My arm is warm") · Peripheral warmth and body temperature as a relaxation signal + 7 more

Install target behaviors in the new context from day one · Habit stacking · The two-minute rule + 7 more

The warmth exercise ("My arm is warm") · Autogenic Training, Made Practical · Peripheral warmth and body temperature as a relaxation signal + 7 more

The erotic gaze: seeing your partner freshly · Regularly share novel and enjoyable activities · Practice openness through regular self-disclosure + 7 more

The Now Habit, Made Practical · Norming: codify agreements in writing · Habit stacking + 7 more

Automate the extra payment on the target debt the day after payday · Automate the transfer so it happens without a decision · Automate the cut before you can spend it + 7 more

The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) · Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time · Recognize what is not happening with proactive recognition + 7 more

Automate savings and investments before the money hits checking · Automate the 20% before the rest of your money arrives · Automate the cut before you can spend it + 7 more

The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) · Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time · Recognize what is not happening with proactive recognition + 7 more

The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) · Recognize what is not happening with proactive recognition · Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time + 7 more

Automate the 20% before the rest of your money arrives · Automate the cut before you can spend it · Automate savings and investments before the money hits checking + 7 more

The Phone Foyer Method · Extend the method by declaring one room phone-free · Get buy-in from others who share your home + 7 more

Automate the cut before you can spend it · Automate savings and investments before the money hits checking · Automate the transfer so it happens without a decision + 7 more

The Phone Foyer Method · Get buy-in from others who share your home · Extend the method by declaring one room phone-free + 7 more

Automate the transfer so it happens without a decision · Automate savings and investments before the money hits checking · Automate your contribution on payday + 7 more

The Phone Foyer Method · Plan for the common obstacles before they arrive · Extend the method by declaring one room phone-free + 7 more

Exploit the Zeigarnik effect to overcome starting resistance · Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem · Use a five-second micro-start to breach the initiation threshold + 7 more

Use a dedicated alarm clock to remove the phone from the bedroom · Extend the method by declaring one room phone-free · Charge your phone outside the bedroom permanently + 7 more

Extend the method by declaring one room phone-free · Use a dedicated alarm clock to remove the phone from the bedroom · Charge your phone outside the bedroom permanently + 7 more

Catch and redirect attributions in real time · Catch the attribution error · Apply attributional retraining to success as well as failure + 7 more

Charge your phone outside the bedroom permanently · Use a dedicated alarm clock to remove the phone from the bedroom · The Phone-Free Bedroom + 7 more

Automate future-self allocations at a moment of patience · Use precommitment devices to lock in future behavior from a patient vantage point · Use commitment devices to make future behavior harder to avoid + 7 more

The Power Nap: Science and Practice · The Science of Napping · Set up a nap-friendly environment + 7 more

Increase contributions on a fixed schedule, not when it feels affordable · Pre-commit a raise before you touch it · Escalate the amount gradually with income + 7 more

The Power Nap: Science and Practice · The Science of Napping · The power nap (10–20 minutes) + 7 more

Use scheduled Do Not Disturb windows for focus and sleep · Increase friction on high-capture apps · Set your phone to alarm-only mode after 9pm + 7 more

Automate the extra payment on the target debt the day after payday · Direct unexpected income entirely to the targeted debt · Guard against the "one more purchase" exception + 7 more

The Power of Full Engagement, Made Practical · Connect to purpose (spiritual energy) · Manage emotional energy + 7 more

Automatic Investing, Made Practical · Automate the investment so the decision is never repeated · Automate your contribution on payday + 7 more

The Power of Full Engagement, Made Practical · Use fierce self-compassion to stay in hard conversations · Competing (assertive, uncooperative) + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Fluency monitoring with speed metrics · Sub-skill isolation and sequencing + 7 more

The Power of Full Engagement, Made Practical · Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure · Practice the "see it, own it, use it" reappraisal + 7 more

Active Recall: The Most Effective Way to Study · Retrieval under cognitive load · Space reviews at increasing intervals after each successful retrieval + 7 more

Actively protect valuable existing habits during transitions · Pre-plan for high-risk moments · Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption + 7 more

Automate savings and investments before the money hits checking · Automate the cut before you can spend it · Automate the 20% before the rest of your money arrives + 7 more

Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption · Build and protect momentum · Actively protect valuable existing habits during transitions + 7 more

Escalate the amount gradually with income · Pre-commit a raise before you touch it · Increase contributions on a fixed schedule, not when it feels affordable + 7 more

Use belief and community to make change stick · The Power of Habit, Made Practical · Engineer cues for habits you want + 7 more

The Power of Habit, Made Practical · Plan behavior management strategies in advance · Engineer cues for habits you want + 7 more

Single-task with full sensory attention as a beginner · Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Consistent-mapping practice + 7 more

Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue · Build a consistent pre-sleep wind-down routine · Set a screen cutoff time + 7 more

Conduct premortems on your past recognition failures · Articulate the cues that triggered your recognition · Prime your identity with environmental cues + 7 more

Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit · Engineer cues for habits you want · Let the habit grow on its own + 7 more

Distinguishing automatic thoughts from core beliefs · The basic downward arrow chain · Behavioral experiments to test core beliefs in vivo + 7 more

Install target behaviors in the new context from day one · Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows · Use a life transition to break old environment-behavior links + 7 more

Automate the transfer so it happens without a decision · Automate your contribution on payday · Protect the priority against quiet leakage + 7 more

Use discipline to build the right habit · Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny · Calculate the opportunity cost of a recurring habit + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Dual-task monitoring · Fluency monitoring with speed metrics + 7 more

Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption · Use discipline to build the right habit · Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Adjust how many interacting elements you introduce at once · Dual-task monitoring + 7 more

Start with a maximum of three mini habits simultaneously · Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny · Use belief and community to make change stick + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Consistent-mapping practice · High-volume repetition blocks + 7 more

Engineer cues for habits you want · The two-minute rule · Let the micro start pull you into more + 7 more

Use belief and community to make change stick · The Power of Habit, Made Practical · Counteract propinquity bias in friend selection + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Consistent-mapping practice · Contextual interference for integration + 7 more

Build small positive rituals that generate surplus passively · The erotic gaze: seeing your partner freshly · Build shared rituals that update your map + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Dual-task monitoring · Consistent-mapping practice + 7 more

Use belief and community to make change stick · The Power of Habit, Made Practical · Focus on keystone habits + 7 more

Automate the extra payment on the target debt the day after payday · Guard against the "one more purchase" exception · Build the capture habit before anything else + 7 more

The Power of Now, In Practice · Feeling the inner body · Entering the present moment + 7 more

Convert passive flexibility into active range (PAILs and RAILs) · End-range loading (strength through full range) · Psychological Flexibility, Made Practical + 7 more

The Power of Now, In Practice · Acceptance of what is · Entering the present moment + 7 more

Rest-and-digest activation — understanding your baseline state · The Relaxation Body-Mind, Made Practical · Peripheral warmth and body temperature as a relaxation signal + 7 more

The Power of Now, In Practice · Entering the present moment · Acceptance of what is + 7 more

Rest-and-digest activation — understanding your baseline state · The Relaxation Body-Mind, Made Practical · Progressive muscle relaxation — using tension to find release + 7 more

Use structured self-compassion after delay — not self-criticism · Self-forgive immediately after procrastinating · Raise your expectancy of success before starting + 7 more

Identify your current rung · Ladder narrative mapping: finding the story your state tells · Use nature or awe experiences to shift into ventral + 7 more

Raise your expectancy of success before starting · Use structured self-compassion after delay — not self-criticism · Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck + 7 more

Catch automatic thoughts in the moment · Ladder narrative mapping: finding the story your state tells · Detached mindfulness: observe thoughts without engaging + 7 more

Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck · The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical · Use structured self-compassion after delay — not self-criticism + 7 more

Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal · Support autonomy even when using external structure · Locate the autonomous "why" + 7 more

Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck · The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical · Raise your expectancy of success before starting + 7 more

Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal · Audit why you are pursuing each goal · Internalize goals you did not choose + 7 more

Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck · Raise your expectancy of success before starting · The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical + 7 more

Clarify what people can decide without asking · Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal · Transfer authority with the responsibility + 7 more

Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck · The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical · Use precommitment devices to compensate for low motivation + 7 more

Karma Yoga: The Yoga of Selfless Action · Treat every act as an offering — however mundane · Use karma yoga as a practice of ethical purification + 7 more

Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck · Use guilt-free play to recover rather than double down · Use structured self-compassion after delay — not self-criticism + 7 more

Anatta as the basis for interconnection · Cultivate Self through directed inner compassion · Begin with self-directed metta before expanding outward + 7 more

Use precommitment devices to compensate for low motivation · Raise your expectancy of success before starting · Diagnose which variable is your bottleneck + 7 more

Support autonomy even when using external structure · Use autonomy-supportive self-talk · Give age-appropriate autonomy within non-negotiable limits + 7 more

Build people’s autonomy and capability · Use autonomy-supportive self-talk · Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal + 7 more

Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy · Trust Self 2 — give the body an image, not instructions · Design practice conditions that enhance feelings of competence + 7 more

The Propinquity Effect (Leon Festinger) · Invest in the people physically nearest you · Understand functional distance and not just physical distance + 7 more