Coaching pour les défis que les gens apportent vraiment (page 264)

Replace checking with a scheduled pickup window · Increase friction on high-capture apps · Designate a charging station at the entry point of your home + 7 more

Protect conversations from phone intrusion · Create a privileged moment — a context of undivided focus · Match the other person’s energy and pace, not just their words + 7 more

Protect conversations from phone intrusion · Create a privileged moment — a context of undivided focus · Use the phone stack at social meals + 7 more

Separate your phone physically during deep work · Designate a charging station at the entry point of your home · Increase friction on high-capture apps + 7 more

Enable grayscale display mode on your phone · Redesign your home screen as a tool, not a feed · Grayscale Phone Mode and Behavioral Design + 7 more

Set hard app limits using built-in screen-time tools · Track your actual usage for one week before capping · Set a screen cutoff time + 7 more

Set your phone to alarm-only mode after 9pm · Charge your phone outside the bedroom permanently · Use scheduled Do Not Disturb windows for focus and sleep + 7 more

Use the phone stack at social meals · Fill your social calendar intentionally · Serving from a distance, not the table + 7 more

Increase friction on high-capture apps · Redesign your home screen as a tool, not a feed · Tame the Infinity Pools + 7 more

Conduct a device audit: one use case, one device · Designate a charging station at the entry point of your home · Increase friction on high-capture apps + 7 more

Learn the 10-consonant phonetic code · The Major System: Encode Numbers as Words · Encode numbers with the Major System + 7 more

Keep verbal and visual channels separate · Paraphrase and explicitly check your understanding · Translate abstract words with the substitute-word system + 7 more

Use the photo paradox: photograph selectively or not at all · Use a dedicated camera for photography instead of a phone · Leave the phone in your pocket (or at home) + 7 more

Use the photo paradox: photograph selectively or not at all · Leave the phone in your pocket (or at home) · Use a dedicated camera for photography instead of a phone + 7 more

Use the photo paradox: photograph selectively or not at all · Use a dedicated camera for photography instead of a phone · Leave the phone in your pocket (or at home) + 7 more

Exercise for Mental Health · Nature and Movement, Made Practical · Move naturally throughout the day rather than only in dedicated exercise sessions + 7 more

Use movement breaks to reset and consolidate · Learn through action, not just observation · Exercise at low-to-moderate intensity to trigger diffuse processing + 7 more

Engage in safe rough-and-tumble play · Use physical movement to shift the nervous system state · Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement + 7 more

Name the contradiction at the heart of the problem · TRIZ: Systematic Invention and the Logic of Contradictions · Sample inventive principles to generate solution directions + 7 more

Manage all four energy dimensions: physical, emotional, mental, spiritual · The Energy Audit · Treat physical energy as the foundation of all other dimensions + 7 more

Manage all four energy dimensions: physical, emotional, mental, spiritual · The Energy Audit · Treat physical energy as the foundation of all other energy + 7 more

Treat physical energy as the foundation of all other dimensions · Manage all four energy dimensions: physical, emotional, mental, spiritual · The Energy Audit + 7 more

Grounding through physical contact with surfaces · Ground and orient to the present · Grounding Techniques for Acute Distress + 7 more

Include emotional health as a core healthspan pillar · Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it · Name what the emotion is doing in your body + 7 more

Steady your blood sugar across the day · Exercise for Mental Health · Include emotional health as a core healthspan pillar + 7 more

Include emotional health as a core healthspan pillar · Treat physical energy as the foundation of all other dimensions · Exercise for Mental Health + 7 more

Anchor abstract concepts to a physical metaphor · Give abstract ideas a concrete image · Ground abstract concepts in concrete, physical instances + 7 more

Use a dumb-phone or phone-free period during a defined daily window · Separate your phone physically during deep work · Create a physical device handoff spot + 7 more

Engage in safe rough-and-tumble play · Use play to re-establish connection after conflict or separation · Catch co-dysregulation before it spirals + 7 more

Release-only relaxation: drop the tension phase · The Relaxation Response, Made Practical · The core tense-and-release cycle + 7 more

Physical self-soothing · Self-Soothing, Made Practical · Five-senses self-soothe + 7 more

Locate the urge in your body · Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting · Recognize the premonitory urge — the signal before the signal + 7 more

Locate the urge in your body · Map your urge triggers · Understand the anatomy of an urge + 7 more

Support the physiology of elevation through vagal tone practices · Elevation: The Emotion That Lifts You · Prime the body for heightened aliveness + 7 more

Understand TIPP — the full DBT context for this skill · PLEASE skills (reduce emotional vulnerability) · TIPP for crisis distress tolerance + 7 more

Soothe physiological flooding before attempting repair · Self-soothing during conflict instead of demanding partner regulate you · Self-soothe and signal when stonewalling + 7 more

Identity Priming, Made Practical · Prime the body for heightened aliveness · Use the 7-minute workout as a morning activation, not just a fitness tool + 7 more

Use credible verbal persuasion to raise efficacy in the short term · Build self-efficacy through mastery experiences · Self-Efficacy: Building the Belief You Can + 7 more

Notice and leverage spontaneous sighs · The Physiological Sigh, Made Practical · Cyclic sighing (one minute of repeated physiological sighs) + 7 more

Sigh through brief physical discomfort · Notice and leverage spontaneous sighs · The Physiological Sigh, Made Practical + 7 more

Physiological sigh for sleep-onset arousal · The Physiological Sigh, Made Practical · Notice and leverage spontaneous sighs + 7 more

The Physiological Sigh, Made Practical · Notice and leverage spontaneous sighs · Cyclic sighing (one minute of repeated physiological sighs) + 7 more

Know when the physiological sigh fits vs. other patterns · Cyclic sighing (one minute of repeated physiological sighs) · The Physiological Sigh, Made Practical + 7 more

Practice deliberate curation awareness — remind yourself of what you are not seeing · Name the prototype you’re comparing against before deciding · Interrogate whether similarity is doing the work + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · The Stoic Discipline of Action · Philosophy as a Way of Life + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It · The Inner Citadel + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Melete thanatou — meditation on death · The Pythagorean evening examination (Hadot’s version) + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise · The Pythagorean evening examination (Hadot’s version) + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Philosophy as a Way of Life · Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Philosophy as a Way of Life · Act as if sages were watching — the practice of the philosophical community + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · The Pythagorean evening examination (Hadot’s version) · Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise · Philosophy as a Way of Life + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · The view from above — cosmic perspective · Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · Act as if sages were watching — the practice of the philosophical community · Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise + 7 more

Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises · The Stoic Discipline of Action · Philosophy as a Way of Life + 7 more

Use goosebumps as a guide to genuine awe · Elevation: The Emotion That Lifts You · Adopt expansive posture to shift subjective confidence + 7 more

Plate pinches and pinch grip work · Thick-bar or fat-grip training for grip hypertrophy · Integrate grip-challenging activities into daily life + 7 more

Sitali (cooling breath) · Left nostril breathing (calming channel) · Nadi shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) + 7 more

Use proven MECE frameworks as starting structures · Map your three circles honestly · Set one organization-wide priority per quarter + 7 more

Map your turning points and what they changed · Identifying the turning points that shaped you · Explore your nuclear episodes + 7 more

Express work in reusable intermediate packets · Quantity Over Quality: How More Drafts Produce Better Work · Steal, steal, then remix + 7 more

Clear the capture inbox regularly · Capture the aha the instant it arrives · Build a trusted capture system — one place, consistent use + 7 more

Building a Second Brain (BASB), Made Practical · Distribute 0.7–1.0 g/lb of protein across 3–4 meals per day · Express work in reusable intermediate packets + 7 more

The Pareto Principle: 80/20 for Personal Productivity · Design for resilience, not just peak efficiency · Consume protein within 2 hours of resistance training + 7 more

Process notes just in time, not just in case · Know when not to process: most notes are fine as-is · Capture what resonates — not everything + 7 more

Process notes just in time, not just in case · Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT): Unsticking the Meanings That Maintain PTSD · Build pattern libraries through deliberate case exposure + 7 more

Explain it to a complete beginner · Run a jargon audit on every key explanation · Apply parsimony to your own communication + 7 more

Explain it to a complete beginner · Simplify the idea without breaking it · Explain it out loud to a real or imagined learner + 7 more

Metalearning: map the skill before you start · Run a plan-monitor-evaluate loop · Run a pre-mortem from the outside-view perspective + 7 more

Name the assumptions that must hold for the plan to work · Map and stress-test your key assumptions · Run a premortem before committing + 7 more

Collaborative Problem Solving (Ross Greene) · Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical · Build a Massive Action Plan (MAP) + 7 more

Plan for obstacles with coping plans · Define what success looks like together, before proposing solutions · Run a mental simulation before committing to a course of action + 7 more

Plan–Do–Study–Act: Deming’s Loop for Personal Improvement · Forethought goal-setting · Spacing over massing + 7 more

Notice the urge as it arises · Plan ahead for predictable triggers · Arm an if-then plan for the impulsive moment + 7 more

Worst-case rehearsal (take the shock out) · Negative visualization (premeditatio malorum) · Plan for obstacles with coping plans + 7 more

Schedule one gratitude visit per quarter · The Gratitude Visit: Telling Someone They Mattered · Practice micro gratitude visits for smaller acknowledgments + 7 more

Convert worry into a concrete plan · Productive Problem-Solving vs. Worry · Note the worry and defer it + 7 more

Self-Monitoring, Made Practical · Run a plan-monitor-evaluate loop · Chunk and schedule time for key results + 7 more

Iterate — treat the stages as a loop, not a line · Test your action plan for specificity before relying on it · Invoke the outside view before committing to any significant plan + 7 more

Review and update action plans at a fixed weekly cadence · Compare ideal and actual week each Friday · Do a mind sweep to surface anything the system hasn’t captured + 7 more

Design decisions so they work even if some things go wrong · Name the assumptions that must hold for the plan to work · Prefer positions with optionality over positions with precision + 7 more

Chunk and schedule time for key results · Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical · Apply RPM at the weekly level + 7 more

Write tomorrow’s six most important tasks the evening before · Separate the planning session from the execution day · Make the evening list a non-negotiable daily ritual + 7 more

Identify and schedule big rocks at the start of each week · Weekly planning · Create an ideal week template + 7 more

Separate the planning session from the execution day · Write tomorrow’s six most important tasks the evening before · Chunk and schedule time for key results + 7 more

Compare ideal and actual week each Friday · Invoke the outside view before committing to any significant plan · Review and update action plans at a fixed weekly cadence + 7 more

Chunk and schedule time for key results · Use if–then commitments for predictable barriers · Pre-identify your temptations before writing the contract + 7 more

Plan for obstacles with coping plans · Select the specific coping skills you will use — in advance · Apply problem-focused coping to changeable stressors + 7 more

Define exceptions in advance, in writing · Guard against the "one more purchase" exception · Plan for obstacles with coping plans + 7 more

Deliberate Recovery: Making Rest a Performance Practice · Practice deliberate psychological disengagement from performance · Treat recovery as a performance investment, not a reward for finishing + 7 more

Name the assumptions that must hold for the plan to work · Map and stress-test your key assumptions · Estimate conservatively and act on the conservative number + 7 more

Name the assumptions that must hold for the plan to work · Map and stress-test your key assumptions · The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong + 7 more

Calibration Training · Score your own past predictions to calibrate your outside-view use · Log actual vs. estimated time for every task + 7 more

Separate the planning session from the execution day · Batch meetings into one or two days per week · Make the evening list a non-negotiable daily ritual + 7 more

Track how you actually feel during experiences, not just afterward · Reference class forecasting · Separate the planning session from the execution day + 7 more

The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong · Use reference class forecasting for project estimates · Reference class forecasting + 7 more

The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong · Reference class forecasting · Run a pre-mortem to interrupt forward narrative construction + 7 more

The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong · Schedule buffers as first-class commitments · Build buffer blocks into the ideal week + 7 more

The premortem (imagine the project already failed) · Estimate conservatively and act on the conservative number · Build room for error (margin of safety) + 7 more

Worst-case rehearsal (take the shock out) · Negative visualization (premeditatio malorum) · Plan for obstacles with coping plans + 7 more