Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 110)

Conduct a quarterly unfollow audit · Curate your feed to reduce highly idealized and celebrity accounts · Restrict social media to scheduled daily access windows + 7 more

For many decisions, going with your gut outperforms lengthy analysis · Use partitioning to limit overuse of resources · Spot the frame being used on you + 7 more

Run a quarterly budget review to reset the allocations · Design conscious spending categories around your values · Roll with the punches + 7 more

Interrupting upward social comparison · Reframe upward comparisons as information, not deficits · Redirect comparison from others to your own past self + 7 more

The emotional eating pause — a 10-minute delay before comfort eating · Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving · Identifying the nine hungers before eating + 7 more

Establish an explicit delegation protocol for Q3 tasks · The Eisenhower Matrix for Teams · Surface the source of urgency before accepting it + 7 more

Insist on objective criteria · Insist on objective criteria to evaluate options · Rehearse the full Ackerman sequence before high-stakes negotiations + 7 more

Reduce the number of options to increase follow-through · Classify every decision as one-way or two-way before starting · Choice Overload, Made Practical + 7 more

Apply the vaccination model: compare population outcomes, not individual paths · Reframe the inaction as a positive act · Apply several models to the same problem at once + 7 more

Self-Verification Theory, Made Practical · Cultivate identity-safe relationships · Survey Experiments: Testing Beliefs by Asking Others + 7 more

Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference · Trade across differing priorities · Create value first, then claim your share + 7 more

Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? · Rate your current position in each domain · Check action against stated values — the alignment review + 7 more

Committed action: making specific, values-linked behavioral commitments · The values–behavior gap check · Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical + 7 more

Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations · Write about a value that matters to you · Use values affirmation to counter stereotype threat + 7 more

Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations · Write about a value that matters to you · Map your value hierarchy + 7 more

Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability · Generate a balanced alternative thought · Affirmations + 7 more

Write about a value that matters to you · Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations · Map your value hierarchy + 7 more

Values-based scheduling · Start the week by connecting your schedule to what you value · Audit your time against your values + 7 more

Align on core values — where they are shared and where they differ · Elicit your actual values before looking at your budget · Check action against stated values — the alignment review + 7 more

Check action against stated values — the alignment review · Align on core values — where they are shared and where they differ · The values–behavior gap check + 7 more

The values–behavior gap check · Model the values you expect (idealized influence) · Rate your current position in each domain + 7 more

Rate your current position in each domain · Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? · The values–behavior gap check + 7 more

Align on core values — where they are shared and where they differ · Using your ranked values as a coaching north star · Make core values operational, not decorative + 7 more

Elicit your actual values before looking at your budget · Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Align on core values — where they are shared and where they differ + 7 more

Excavate your actual values from your history · Testing a core belief with historical evidence · Invest meaning in shared symbols and objects + 7 more

Separate values from goals · Values clarification · Values Card Sort + 7 more

Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? · The values–behavior gap check · Run a weekly platform value audit + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Defuse from thoughts that block values-based action · Values Bullseye, Made Practical + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Defuse from thoughts that block values-based action · Walk your why — act from values, not from mood + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Stick to Values: act consistently with what actually matters to you · Values clarification: what matters most to you? + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Committed action: making specific, values-linked behavioral commitments · Turn the chosen domain into a committed action + 7 more

The Stoic Discipline of Action · Act as a rational social animal — remember your dual nature · Orient action toward the common good + 7 more

Affirmations · Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability · Map your value hierarchy + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Behavioral Activation: Acting Your Way Out of Low Mood · Identity Priming, Made Practical + 7 more

Open every circle by naming shared values · Using values questions to deepen a conversation · Find mutual purpose + 7 more

Make core values operational, not decorative · Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Make core values operational, not decorative + 7 more

Anchor discomfort to a stated value · Stick to Values: act consistently with what actually matters to you · Label discomfort precisely before acting on it + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · The forced-rank sort · Values-Based Spending, Made Practical + 7 more

Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills · Make core values operational, not decorative · Values-Based Spending, Made Practical + 7 more

Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Values Clarification, Made Practical + 7 more

Match your message frame to the audience’s motivation type · Storytelling for Persuasion, Made Practical · Make them feel they already own it before asking them to keep it + 7 more

Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Design conscious spending categories around your values + 7 more

Build buffer blocks into the ideal week · Values-based scheduling · Map tasks to energy levels throughout the day + 7 more

Make core values operational, not decorative · Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Screen tools against your values + 7 more

Using your ranked values as a coaching north star · Excavate core values before writing goals · Build a three-level goal hierarchy + 7 more

The values–behavior gap check · Rate your current position in each domain · Model the values you expect (idealized influence) + 7 more

Rate your current position in each domain · Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? · The values–behavior gap check + 7 more

Values Clarification, Made Practical · Clarify the concepts you are using · Values Card Sort + 7 more

Use mortality salience to clarify what actually matters · Use mortality as a priority filter · Move from terror management to mortality acceptance + 7 more

Values Clarification, Made Practical · Values Card Sort · Clarify the concepts you are using + 7 more

Values Clarification, Made Practical · Clarify the concepts you are using · Values Card Sort + 7 more

Values Clarification, Made Practical · Clarify the concepts you are using · Values Card Sort + 7 more

Values Card Sort · Rate your current position in each domain · Review the bullseye weekly to track real movement + 7 more

Write a values declaration as the core of your legacy letter · Values Card Sort · Design conscious spending categories around your values + 7 more

Compare the feared risk to risks you already accept · Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations · Convert emotional reactions to statistical questions + 7 more

Excavate your actual values from your history · Reduce opportunity-cost thinking · Values clarification through lived evidence + 7 more

Rate your current position in each domain · Check action against stated values — the alignment review · Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? + 7 more

The forced-rank sort · Use the hierarchy as a self-diagnostic, not a ladder · Rank your top values + 7 more

Rate your current position in each domain · Turn the chosen domain into a committed action · Take value-consistent committed action + 7 more

Argument Mapping · Use colors and images to encode categories and relationships · IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical + 7 more

Identity Priming, Made Practical · Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask · Pre-Suasion, Made Practical + 7 more

Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask · Identity Priming, Made Practical · Open every circle by naming shared values + 7 more

The forced-rank sort · Values Card Sort · Calibrate the Borg scale to your actual physiology + 7 more

Build a weekly reflection ritual so the cycle runs regularly · Use simple reflections to confirm you heard correctly · Observe from multiple angles before drawing conclusions + 7 more

The Stoic Daily Review · Seneca’s evening court — judge the day as an honest prosecutor · Ask for clarity and honest perception + 7 more

The seasonal values revisit · Run an annual values-spending alignment review · Track self-stability over time + 7 more

The Similarity-Attraction Effect (Donn Byrne) · Use similarity to connect, not to seek validation · Surface genuine shared values and experiences early + 7 more

Values-Based Spending, Made Practical · Design conscious spending categories around your values · Make spending on top priorities guilt-free by design + 7 more

The Time Audit · Analyze your log for patterns and surprises · Audit where your time actually goes + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Committed action: making specific, values-linked behavioral commitments · Take value-consistent committed action + 7 more

Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Values Bullseye, Made Practical · Turn the chosen domain into a committed action + 7 more

Maintain a clear, stable reference point for what good performance looks like · Track leading behaviors, not lagging outcomes · Review the bullseye weekly to track real movement + 7 more

Update your forecast incrementally as new evidence arrives · The seasonal values revisit · Run an annual values-spending alignment review + 7 more

Values compass check: is this action moving toward or away? · The values–behavior gap check · Rate your current position in each domain + 7 more

The values–behavior gap check · Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? · Rate your current position in each domain + 7 more

Walk your why — act from values, not from mood · Notice and name mixed or contradictory emotions simultaneously · Expand your feelings vocabulary + 7 more

Using your ranked values as a coaching north star · Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical · Excavate core values before writing goals + 7 more

Identify the main internal obstacle that stands between you and the wish · Obstacle — find the inner obstacle in your way · Map the obstacles: WOOP your life-crafting goals + 7 more

Anchor self-definition in values, not roles · Reduce social comparison as a source of self-definition · Choose authentically — from your own values, not from expectation + 7 more

Elicit your actual values before looking at your budget · Write the hypothesis before you act · Build narrative coherence: connect events, emotions, and meaning + 7 more

Ventral Vagal Activation: Accessing the Safe-and-Social State · Hum, tone, or chant to activate the social engagement system · Practice soft, warm eye contact + 7 more

Ventral Vagal Activation: Accessing the Safe-and-Social State · Hum, tone, or chant to activate the social engagement system · Using social engagement to activate ventral vagal tone + 7 more

Apophatic prayer: releasing images of God · Negative Visualization, the Stoic Practice · Understanding the night as purgative rather than punitive + 7 more

Apply the view to interrupt anger · The View from Above · Map your anger triggers + 7 more

Man’s Search for Meaning, Made Practical · Logotherapy · Find the attitudinal value in what cannot be changed + 7 more

Progress bars and visual progress · Track progress in a way that shows remaining distance · Make progress visible with a simple tracker + 7 more

Build a behavioral bridge to the possible self · Connect with your future self to motivate present sacrifice · Make your future self vivid to reduce psychological distance + 7 more

Crucial Accountability: Holding People to Commitments That Matter · Accountability Partners · Close with a specific, confirmed, next-step commitment + 7 more

Social Comparison Online: What the Research Actually Shows · Redirect comparison from others to your own past self · Curate your comparison pool deliberately + 7 more

Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take · The calm “late-night FM DJ” voice · Expand the pie before you divide it + 7 more

Deliberate Discomfort: Using Voluntary Challenge to Build Resilience · Voluntary Discomfort: The Stoic Practice of Chosen Hardship · Voluntary Deprivation: Choosing Absence to Build Appreciation and Resilience + 7 more

Deliberate fasting as a discomfort practice · Strategic refeeding after the FMD cycle · Know when not to fast + 7 more

Identity Priming, Made Practical · Frame desired behaviors as identities, not actions · Cultivate a scout identity: "I’m the kind of person who updates" + 7 more

Build shame resilience by naming and sharing it · Share a struggle to discover shared ground · Share shame with someone safe + 7 more

Wake early and own the first hour · Think of discipline as a practice that compounds · Schedule high-stakes self-control tasks first + 7 more

Walk away cleanly when the deal falls below your reservation price · Know when no deal is the right outcome · Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take + 7 more

Map the ZOPA before negotiating · Calculate your reservation price directly from your BATNA · Walk away cleanly when the deal falls below your reservation price + 7 more

Scheduled, recurring check-ins · Run a weekly accountability session · Conduct a daily after-action review with zero excuses + 7 more

Scheduled, recurring check-ins · Run a weekly accountability session · Run a weekly leadership team meeting focused on strategic issues + 7 more